SUNDAY JOINT, 5-11-2025: ALOHA AND THANK YOU TO CLYDE AIKAU

Hey All,

Clyde Aikau of Hawaii died last week, age 75, at home, from pancreatic cancer and heart disease, and while much of the coverage and commentary has been about Clyde himself, you didn't have to read far before getting to Eddie Aikau. Which makes sense. It is hard, maybe impossible, to unlink the two brothers—a notion that Clyde himself would no doubt approve of. Eddie, three years older, was in many ways a template for Clyde. They surfed so much alike, for starters. Eddie had the purer gift, no doubt, and if Clyde never matched his brother when conditions got truly insane, so what, nobody else could either, then or now. 

Eddie died in 1978, and the brothers' roles were at that point cast in stone—one legend and the other human. That is on many levels a difficult and unfair position, but never, not for a moment, did you get the sense that Clyde was anything but grateful and honored to be the legacy-bearer for Eddie.

In fact, because Clyde himself was so good at being the appreciative and supportive younger brother it was often easy for the rest of us to overlook just how different the two were, and how wholly remarkable Clyde was in his own right. Surfing-wise, of course, the achievements spill forth: it was Clyde, not Eddie, who got the breakthrough Duke Classic win in 1974 (Eddie won in 1977), then of course the dramatic Quiksilver-Eddie win in 1986, and maybe best of all the fact that Clyde was still out there in huge waves—elegant and nervy and classically Hawaiian; the last of the great bow-legged "bully" stylists—into his 60s.

Meanwhile, Clyde had the lighter spirit, the innate ability to connect. Or to change the context slightly, Eddie was by nature shy and reserved—weighted down later in life, burdened, even depressed—while Clyde was outgoing, talkative, expressive, and open. He easily could have gone dark as the years rolled by. Clyde lost four brothers, two tragically and unexpectedly, and just a few years ago woke up to the news that his nephew and grandnephew were involved in a murder-suicide at the house where Clyde and Eddie grew up. 

Clyde grieved and processed and kept moving forward. He was a kinetic force. The public got a glimpse of this as early as 1978, in the days after Eddie's at-sea disappearance, when a Honolulu Star-Advertiser reporter visited the Aikau family house for a Page Two feature:

The smell of hot coffee filled the damp air. Beer was in coolers. Mrs. Aikau sat leaning on a table by the entrance. She already lost one of her five sons, in a 1973 car accident which came after surfing triumphs by both Eddie and his brother Clyde. Her husband walked over to give her encouragement, but she asked to be left alone. Clyde, who flew back from a surfing contest in Australia to join the search for his brother, was alert and intense despite spending the entire day swimming and walking along the southwest coast of Lanai. "We want to check all the islands even if there is only an outside chance. We want to be able to sleep knowing we’ve done everything. Every rock, beach, and cave has to be checked,” Clyde said. Myra, Eddie's sister, announced that the family would take care of any expenses of flying people to the other islands [to join the search]—cost didn't matter. Clyde then organized the group and decided who would go where. "This is something we have to do," he said. "This is family."

Clyde was the resilient Aikau. He had the greater sense of balance, and while that came through best during difficult times, it also allowed him to be joyous, playful, when times were good. Clyde was comfortable in his own skin in a way Eddie rarely was. It is not a fair comparison, given the decades between the two events, but listen to Eddie speak here, and watch Clyde speak here, and you get a sense of how different the two men were in terms of being outward-facing public figures. Clyde is relaxed in front of the mic the way Eddie was relaxed dropping in behind the boil at Waimea.

The Aikau family would always live in Clyde, and much of that legacy was heavy indeed. But Clyde was the one who best channeled and reflected the light, the upside, so let's end on this memory he shared with Bruce Jenkins a few years ago, about winning the '86 Quiksilver-Eddie. 

Waimea that day was kinda blowing onshore. When sets came in, it would look like it was breaking a mile out. And at that time, a lot of big-wave surfers never rode the Bay when it was like that. Me and Eddie surfed there a lot, though, and I knew how the waves would break. So when I was in my heat, and the sets would come in, I would scream, “Big set! Big set!” Everybody would be racing out to the ocean, and I'd be paddling the other way. And the wave would be poppin’ right where I was.

The two brothers still together, putting the moves on everybody else. Clyde still laughing about it 30-plus years later. All of us, I suppose, look for different things in the people we choose to admire. Humor is high on the list for me. Clyde was an Aikau, heart and soul, but he looked a bit like Cheech Marin, and the fact that he lived through all he lived through and retained his smile and sparkle—that is its own amazing legacy, and Clyde gets that one without having to share.

Thanks for reading, and see you next week!

Matt

[Photo grid, clockwise from top left: Clyde Aikau at Sunset, 1970, photo by Art Brewer; portrait photo by Aaron Chang; bottom turn at Waimea Bay in 1977; Clyde smiling at Makaha, photo by Al Benson; Smirnoff wipeout, 1974, photo by Jeff Divine; Eddie and Clyde Aikau leaving the water at Waimea Bay, 1967, photo by Tim McCullough. Clyde at Sunset Beach, 1969, photo by Al Benson. Aikau family, 1975, photo by Steve Wilkings. Frame grabs of 2023 Clyde Aikau interview on TambaTV.]